Late last year. My vehicle was rear-ended, I was waiting for the traffic light to turn green then BOOM! I cried like crazy because I’m in shock! I don’t know what to do. Let’s not talk about the guy who did all this because I’m still not happy with what happened. I’m just glad Kulinggit was not with me.
Earlier in my life, I could say…NO. Because I try to see the good of the person and just avoid the red flags. There are times, lugi ako. Meaning, I’m on the receiving end of abuso, panloloko etc. End result of being TOO KIND and SHOWING VULNERABILITY to the wrong people that is overshadowed of PAGPAPAKA-TOTOO. Good thing, I tend to realize it early on. Because of that, it taught me how take everything with a grain of salt. I don’t put my trust 100% into everything until I’ve proven the consistency of the “realness” (I’m not sure if realness is the right word thus the quote in quote).
I could say I’m a lot better now when judging a character. 99% of the time, I’m correct. I just don’t put my energy into them. My time and energy are too precious, to waste on those life suckers.
Off topic: I like this daily prompt. Makes me want to actually post something. For now anything stimulating to my mom brain would be a great bonus. A more fitting post as well to the random thoughts tag.